FAQ

Awaken your 6th sense

What does it mean to awaken your 6th sense and what are the benefits? 

We have all been taught that as humans we have five major senses. Those senses are sight, sound, smell, taste and touch. These are the tools we use to navigate through life. Although we can survive and even compensate if we lose one of these senses, they still keep us bound and limited to the physical world.  This keeps our mind stuck in a dimension that only encompasses about 10% of our existence. When we awaken our mind to our 6th sense it opens us to higher dimensions of our mind that transcends the limitation of the physical and into the other 90% of us that is spiritual. 

The key to awakening our 6th sense is through our feelings.  Our feelings are the fuel that propels us to higher dimensions that go beyond the physical and tap into that vastness that we truly are.  It’s like an iceberg. We can only see the tip but the mass of the iceberg still exists. When we tap into that mass it gives us a new understanding and relationship with ourselves that opens us to our higher senses. These senses include creativity, empathy, insight, intuition, wisdom, and the ability to heal one’s self.  

Awakening your 6th sense is fast and easy with most clients feeling noticeable results within their first session.

Find your Self Worth and value 

Do you have a hard time making ends meet? Do you feel like you don’t get what you deserve? Do you feel overlooked and underappreciated at times? Do you feel that others get things that you don’t or feel sometimes that life is not fair? Do you lack confidence or feel funny asking for what you want?  If so, you are not alone and YOU ARE DEFINATELY NOT WRONG. It’s not that you don’t have worth and value it’s that your worth is being blocked by other emotions which results in feeling less valued.  What’s even more confusing is that some of those emotions that you are feeling don’t even belong to you. So, how can you possible untangle a mess that you don’t even know exists? 

Awakening your mind clears that up for you. It helps you let go of energy that makes you feel devalued or secondary and turns it into energy that is makes you feel valued and primary. When you take ownership of your worth your value increases in every aspect of your life be it finances, relationships, career and life.

Understanding what you feel and why you are feeling it

This is the foundation of everything I do. Everything I know, everything I teach and all the awakenings and healings I perform. I have learned and realized that knowing how I feel gives me a direct connection to understanding how others feel. It really isn’t that hard it is just looking at yourself from a different perspective. I find that most people want to change but they don’t know how because they are so closed off from their feelings. There are many reasons for this. The most obvious is that you weren’t taught to acknowledge your feelings, you were taught to suppress them. You were taught to do what others thought was right for you which inevitably leads to self-doubt. 

Another major issue that most people are not even aware of is the fact that they are empathic or highly sensitive people. These empaths or HSP’s are natural born feelers. They naturally operate on a different system sort of speak that non empaths, and that wreaks havoc with their feelings and understanding of self.  I can’t tell you how many people have said to me “Don’t think I’m crazy but….”  I assure you; you are not crazy you just process information differently than more physically oriented or linear people do. When you understand this about you everything in your life changes for the better.  

Whether you are empathic or linear once you know what you are feeling you have the power to change it. For instance, if you find out that you feel distrustful because of a specific incident or incidents that happened in your life and you can see the pattern of hurt or harm it led you too, then you have the power to release it because you don’t need it anymore. The biggest hurdle we have is not understanding the information before us but, once we understand it all changes for the better.  Think of it as a monster in the closet. As a child you believe there is a monster in the closet because you can’t see what is behind the door but once that door is open and the light is turned on you can clearly see there is nothing to be frightened of. 

Transform depression into progression

Did you know that going through the motions of life without really enjoying it is a form of depression? How many of you just exist? How many of you have looked back and said “where did the time go” without remembering anything memorable about that time? Do you feel like you keep doing the same things over and over again but life doesn’t seem to get any better? What is depression anyway? According to the American Psychiatric Association Depression (major depressive disorder) is a common and serious medical illness that negatively affects how you feel, the way you think and how you act. Fortunately, it is also treatable. Depression causes feelings of sadness and/or a loss of interest in activities you once enjoyed. It can lead to a variety of emotional and physical problems and can decrease your ability to function at work and at home. That is the physical definition of depression but I am not taking the physical approach, I am taking an energetic or nonphysical approach which is to find the cause or emotional and mental conflict between your mind and body. Once found, I apply light energy to the cause which transfers into the effected areas, such as your thoughts, feelings and the cells of the body. When this is done simultaneously with verbal feedback of my findings, you begin to change and feel better. The more you change the better you feel and the lighter you become. Not only in the metaphoric sense but in the physical as well. My clients tell me they feel much lighter, more focused, and have the energy and strength to deal with their issues transforming their depression into a progressive and happier existence. 

Move past co-dependency and unhealthy relationships

When is it ok to say yes and when should you say no and how do you say no without feeling guilty, bad or wrong? There is a fine line because sometimes you do something you don’t want for the right reasons and sometimes you do it for the wrong reasons. How do you determine which is which? How do stand steadfast when someone is angry at you for your decision? It all boils down to knowing yourself. When you know yourself and what you want you do not get swayed or influenced by someone else’s wants or agenda. 

Relationships come in all forms because you are constantly relating to everything. Be it your partner, your family, your career, money, sex, alcohol, cell phone, etc. We are in a constant relay with everything in our life. Is your relationship with that thing or things healthy? Do you know when to stay and when to go? Do you know what is good for you and what is not? I don’t mean that morally, I mean that energetically. Does what you are doing make you feel good or bad? Does that relationship make you feel good or bad? Are you in that relationship with whatever it is because you are too scared to get out of it and try something else or perhaps you don’t feel you have the means to get out and you are stuck?

Stacey helps you move past these unhealthy relationships by helping you to understand who you are and what you want. She then helps you create healthy boundaries based on that criteria to give you the courage to say no and the confidence to move into better and more healthy relationships. It doesn’t mean the end of that relationship it means a new perspective of that relationship that makes you feel happy, confident, and comfortable in your own skin. 

Remember who you are/restore your personal identity

Do you feel like you are the passenger in everyone else’s life? When was the last time you really felt happy? When is the last time you remember what you wanted and put yourself first to get it? It’s easy to forget who we are especially when we have not had the privilege of getting to know ourselves in the first place. We’ve been taught that it is better to give than receive and to do the right thing but, is that the right thing for us or for somebody else? It’s hard to determine when we don’t remember who we are or what we want.  It has been pounded into us that our identity is that of the role we play. Who are you if you take away your role? What happens when you take away the title of mother, father, sister, brother, lawyer, clerk, teacher or what have you? Who are you? What are you about? What makes you happy and how do you move into that space and reinvent yourself? 

I’ve had so many clients say to me they don’t remember who they are and they don’t know what they want. They say it’s not that they aren’t happy but they feel more like they are just existing and stuck in a rut.  It’s not that they don’t want to get out of the rut they just don’t know how. 

Awakening sessions change that for you. It helps you decipher what you want from what you think or have been programmed to do. It relieves you of the burdens of living up to someone else’s expectations and allows you to see yourself through your own lens. Awakening restores you to your own authentic identity and restores the carefree and happy you that was stuck inside. 

Find the Cause of your stress

Stress to me is a catch all phrase. You can say you are stressed or feel stressed but what are you stressed about? What is causing your stress. If you don’t answer that question you can’t resolve the problem.  My own kids have said to me, “Mom, you don’t get it, I’m stressed” My response to them is what are you stressed out about? “work is stressing me out, all the things I have to do, I have to take get the kids to their activities and on and on and on”. Looking at stress from that perspective is like trying to hold back an ocean wave. It’s not going to happen. It’s too big and overwhelming. Stress is like a molehill that turns into a mountain. It is usually one particular thing that is bothering you that gets exaggerated and overflows into everything else because the real cause has not been addressed or yet recognized. 

I help you find that cause by pinpointing the source of the stress and resolving that issue. Once that issue is resolved your stress level is significantly reduced if not eliminated altogether.  

To trust yourself

How many times have you thought you could count on someone only to end up disappointed in the end? Charlie Brown and Lucy are a great example of that as Charlie Brown always trusts that Lucy will hold the football for him so he can kick a field goal. In the end he always ends up on his back because she can’t be trusted to follow through on what she says. Do you feel like Charlie Brown? How many times have you landed on your back and then go back for more? Deep down you know how it will end even when the other person pleads with you to trust them yet, you put more trust in them than you do your own self. This is where the problem lies and this is how we remedy that problem. 

Trust begins with you. Awakening helps you to find the part of you that is trustworthy. Once you’ve found your inner trust you no longer have to rely on others and be disappointed. Trusting yourself gives you the insight and understanding to see the red flags and warnings about others so you can make an informed and confident decision as to who or what you want in your life leaving the pain, the disappointment and the distrust behind.  

Release the cause of your trauma

Trauma can be tricky. What you think is the cause usually isn’t the cause at all. Take the example of PTSD. What you would think is the obvious cause is more of a trigger from the original source of the issue. These sources are located deep within the emotional, mental and cellular memory and at times are even brought in at birth through your DNA to resolve an unresolved issue from another lifetime. Although this may sound a little crazy, energy carries a memory and at our core, energy is what we are. What we do to release the cause of the trauma is to get to the source of the memory and resolve the conflict. 

The process is easy and not painful and you don’t have to relive the trauma over and over again. Most clients start to feel immediate relief within the first session however, seven to eight sessions are recommended in most cases. 

Move past grief and sorrow

Grief is such a personal thing. We all grieve for different reasons. Be it the loss of a loved one or a part of ourselves. It is so deeply rooted into our emotions that it can be too overwhelming to deal so, it just stays stuck and keeps you from moving forward.  

I can help you lift the grief without having to feel the emotional pain and sorrow.  I can’t think of a better way to explain it than through this client testimonial.   “Stacey is the real deal. She helped me with my grief and getting to the blockages I had in place that prevented me from healing. So fast, she got to the crux of the matter that I say was better than any traditional therapist that might take weeks. She tapped into souls living and past and knew my soul’s struggle that no one else knows. Her sessions are peaceful and raw at the same time. I never got that deep about my inner self and I felt the healing. Thank you, Stacey. You are truly gifted.”

Release Guilt and shame

The burden of guilt is more than most of us can handle. It not only makes us feel awful but it makes us question ourselves. How many times have asked yourself, what did I do wrong?

Have you ever felt wrong about something you haven’t done or think you should have done? Do you blame yourself when your spouse, boss, children or friends get mad? Do you think or feel you should have done more or do you turn a blind eye to something you know is not right? It’s hard to feel good about yourself if you always feel wrong. 

I help you release guilt and shame by helping you to understand why you feel this way. When you understand the dynamic behind the problem it is easy to let go and move on from that feeling. This gives you the freedom to accept your own feelings without feeling wrong about it.